About Ronald

Hi, I’m Ronald

I believe relationships form the very core of our existence. When our most important relationships go wrong, so does the rest of our life. And the loneliest one will ever feel, is lonely in relationship.

Besides from supporting couples, individuals and families with their relationships, I have an interest working with emerging relational trends, areas including but not limited to affair recovery, LGBTQ+ relationships, long distance relationships, consensual non-monogamy. I approach each relationship with curiosity and respect, recognising that no two relationships are the same.

How my passion developed

My parents immigrated to Australia from Vietnam, fleeing the war with nothing but each other. In a new country, far from everything familiar, they had to rebuild their lives from the ground up. Through all the uncertainty and hardship, one thing remained constant — they had one another.

That was my first understanding of how powerful relationships can be. Even in the most difficult moments, connection can be what carries us through.

But growing up, I took on a different role in that story. Seeing how much my parents were already carrying, I quietly decided that I shouldn’t add to their burden. I learned to be independent, to keep things to myself, to manage on my own.

Over time, that independence came at a cost.

I found it hard to connect with others. Communication didn’t come naturally. Trust felt out of reach.

It wasn’t that I didn’t want meaningful relationships — I did. I just didn’t know how to build them, and for a long time, I felt stuck in that space between wanting connection and not knowing how to reach it.

It wasn’t until years later, after experiencing a deep sense of loneliness, that I formed my first truly meaningful connection. For the first time, I felt what it was like to be fully myself with someone — to feel seen, heard, and understood.

That relationship didn’t last, but it changed me.

It opened something in me and set me on a path to understand relationships more deeply — not just how they work, but why they matter so much.

I learnt that relationships aren’t just an important thing, they’re everything. And that the quality of our relationships shapes the quality of our lives.

Looking back, the struggles I experienced growing up weren’t something to overcome and leave behind. They became an essential part of who I am. They shaped the way I see people, the way I listen, and the way I hold space for others.

And most importantly, they allowed me to develop a deep sense of compassion for those who are struggling in their own relationships — because I know what it’s like to want connection, but not know how to get there.

How I help others

Whether you’re having issues with: communication as you don’t feel like you’re on the same page, conflict resolution - as nothing seems to get resolved, feel like you’ve lost the intimacy and closeness, and you no longer trust one another, are you struggling with sex, finances, house responsibilities, parenting or in-laws?

Counselling is an opportunity for couples and families to rediscover the strength in their connection, nurture deeper understanding, and co-create a resilient foundation that is thriving and fulfilling.

I will help you and your loved one's nurture meaningful, connected and authentic relationships.